Sunday, January 13, 2008

The Ultimate Guide to Success at Online Dating Services

Twelve simple rules that will help you to benefit from online dating services.

1) Define the goal. Ask yourself "what do I want to achieve" - and use an answer as your guideline when you'll be filling your profile or wrighting messages to candidates. If you don't know your goal you'll be disappointed when you achieve null result.
2) Sign up to any free mail service like Yahoo!mail or Gmail.com - it's better to use absolutely new e-mail to register at online dating sites.
3) Register at every online dating service that you know or could find. The more people will see you - the more choice possibilities you'll have when they'll write you a message.
4) Be yourself. While filling in your profile at dating site be honest and answer all questions. Less lies - less troubles in the future.
5) If your nickname is something like "_@$ewrtcxf{{" then you shouldn't expect a lot of persons wishing to communicate with you. Be simple. And sexy.
6) Your profile should be filled with very detailed information about you - where do you live, what you like, your age, profession, degree, your pets or something else.
7) Add as much photographs as possible - one costs 1000 lines of text. Filter ugly, horrible and disease photos. Smiles are good. No porn.
8) Choose the best one for your avatar. The sexier - the better. It will attract 10000 times more people than "no avatar here".
9) Make yourself noticeable. Join all possible communities at online dating sites, participate in contests and polls, make your own if possible. Try to find unusual answers but they must be what you really think. The goal of this is just the same - to make people remember you and to make them want to discover your details. In combination with great avatar it'll give you huge amount of interested visitors.
10) Create topics at associated forums that belong to online dating services. Ask interesting questions or make good recommendations.
11) Be patient. Every online dating site has audience from 2 to 10 millions. You must choose the best from them. It takes time.
12) Never give up. Only those take what they want who overtakes his laziness, diffidence and weakness.

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